38 Degrees Centigrade

Today when I am in London, i realize how much I use to hate sunlight and its heat when it use to touch my skin, sweat me, irritated me with itching. I never liked it. I hated it so much, that I choose to stay home upon going out for work or leisure.

During my training in Gloucestershire on Leadership, I started to crave for heat and sunlight, when I first experience 7 degree centigrade. I started to shiver and wanted to stay in, upon going out.

This makes me start speaking like Wilson Luna, mMmmmm, AaaAahhh, Interesting 🙂

Interesting Isn;t?? When I were in Pakistan, I use to hate sunlight and heat. When I came to UK, I started to crave. I craved for what I hated the most. I started to enjoy heat and sunlight when it touched my skin. I liked it and wanted to penetrate it more and more to the cell level.

Why am i writing this bullshit is to make the point to help you understand that external factor affects the way one feels. When you change external factor, you can change how you feel and likewise when you change internal feelings, you experience different external factors.

You must have learn basic rule of mathematics of :
if a = b
then b=a

so if external factor = internal factor
then internal factor = external factor

Its a very important lesson which all of us needs to learn and understand to take charge of emotions and life. learning to do so will resolve 100% of your problems and issues.

if you feel sad, because of whatever reason, if you feel bad for whatever reason, its not because of your reason, but rather because of what you feel. If you are Poor and have no money, having no money is a result. Results are external and external is equals to internal. So if you are sad, because you have no money. They both equates each other. If you want to have abundance, you have to create an equal equation.

Believe me your life will change.

Are You Still Longing

Have you ever find yourself being stuck, suffering and waiting long for your dreams and desires to come alive. Yesterday my Coach ‘Sabine heineman’ from Netherlands pointed its always the case with me. I never get my desires fulfill easily or without waiting. And that longing creates desperation and suffering. Not only that but pain and anxiety. I loose the peace of my mind. And it seems as If I am rushing and running after things.

I were curious to know the reasons behind. Why is it happening to me? I am sure it must have happened to you as well. And I just can’t get rid of this no matter how hard I try. My reason to write this article is because I truly can feel what you would be going through. Because I have gone through the same. I can feel your mind and body being exhausted running for things. Your mind secretly telling you to rush for things as if the clearance sale will finish soon and there won’t be anymore good commodities at the cheapest prize. So hurry…. Here I am referring to your success and to your goals for the day and for your bigger goals. Isn’t what your mind tells you all the time. Get success quickly. Get things you desire quickly. The more you rush, the more you suffer. Because rush creates panic and anxiety and you loose your power to manifest your desires.

More importantly I realize, that most of us have installed a wrong pattern in our subconscious mind. Remember, subconscious is subconscious, it learns from your action and behavior and every time you take action or reaction its being recorded in your subconscious mind without you being aware of it. I needed answer to my quest that why am I suffering. What is making me suffer. What am I creating that is causing me to suffer? Few moments later, the moment of ‘Aha’. My divine intuitive guide blessed me with insights of what is being done here. Just like me many of you have created a pattern of suffering before you get something. That’s about it. Since all patterns belong to your subconscious mind, everytime you make efforts to achieve something, your old pattern revokes and creates the same situation around. That makes me suffer and you are left with longing and crave.

At this point in time when you know what’s bugging you, what would you do? I recommend be thankful to God. Many of you might disagree, some may laugh and ridicule and other might want to slap me. Oh Gosh, I am suffering and longing, what’s the point in being thankful. There isn’t anything good about it. Fortunately, awareness is the best part. if you weren’t aware, you would still be suffering. Now that you are blessed with awareness, the first thing I recommend all my readers, clients and friends is to be thankful to God.

Out of this 3 step formula to kill your longing and craving pattern, I have already shared the first and the fundamental concept necessary for your well being and manifestation. The next 2 steps is the secrete process that I share with my Coaching Clients and Seminars. I warmly welcome you to schedule your time and be a manifesting magnet forever.

Halla Bol

One of my Coach, Sabine Hieneman from Netherland explains that every soul has a purpose in life for which they have manifested physical form of life and that nothing in this world is a random creation. For everything there is a perfect divine thought which includes where and which country you would have born. Hmmm, sounds somewhat familiar yet confusing.

With all hatred in mind and bitterness in heart, since she have shared this knowledge with me, I have been thinking continuously on the same lines. Why were I born in Pakistan? A typical question from 9 out of 10 countrymen.

If you are amongst those 9, who everyday curse their life and their being to be born in Pakistan, to live in Pakistan and not to make yourself move out from here, I have the most inspiring secrete to reveal in my article below.

Before I start revealing my amusing secrete, it is important to have a clear definition of the word success. Does it mean Power to you or it mean money to you. Does it mean recognition to you or it means fame to you. Whatever it is, it clearly means improvement, upgrading, progress or expansion. It means improved version of something or someone. What if I ask you to draw a line of success alone? Would you be able to define it? And what if I ask you to draw a line of improved version, a line from worst to best. You surly can do that, right. It’s very simple; just make a graph, a line stretching from low point to high point. But success alone has no line. The point to be understood here is that we must have a low point to achieve a highest.

I realize that the point is very difficult to comprehend by anyone despite its simplicity. I have been living in guilt for many years now. And I am so thankful to God to bring me out of this guilt gradually. Just few minutes back before I grab my laptop to start writing my thoughts, a thought passes my conscious that left me bitter mouth. I didn’t even want to think about it. I hold a very positive image of myself. I always consider myself as smart and intelligent. Whereby, this passing thought made me feel completely opposite and awful. This smart and intelligent girl made a mistake in the year 2008 of wearing printed colorful 3 quarter pant with ‘D&G’ red color T-shirt on a working day at office. Cherry On the top was I keep on debating with my Manager in Bank that this is semi casual and he could not refrain me from wearing. Hhhuuuhhhhhhhh …. Too much

The very next moment, I realized the concept of low and high. Its importance and need. Imagine a place of your dream, where everything is just perfect. Government working fairly, all peace and harmony. Dresses are perfect. Food is perfect. Men are perfect. Perfection is something, where you can’t go any further. Just perfect. Nothing to improve. Nothing to fight for. Opportunities are seized here because no work is required. Everything is perfect around. All new thoughts are seized. Entire creation will seize because everything is perfect.

And then, I realized the true and hidden meaning of the author. Many people in the world as well as in Pakistan are suffering from guilt which brings along anxiety, fear, loneliness and depression. Many Psychologists believe that in order to help guilt, depression or anxiety ‘Acceptance’ of it is the first and foremost important thing to achieve. And I believe that my secrete to comprehend low and high in life will naturally bring acceptance to every failure you may had in life. Because you are not seized, I am not seized. High points can only be achieved if there is a low point available.

Opportunities are not seized in Pakistan. We are so lucky!!! That we have million and trillions of opportunities to work for, to fight for. It is simply a matter of recognizing opportunities, grab it with both hands and be Thankful to the creator ‘The Almighty’ and Halla Bol.