4 TIPS for Women’s to hook up with right Man

The 1st questions that comes to parents and even girls when deciding to get married is How much the guy earns? Or if he belongs to a rich family. This is the first ever questions that comes to mind and being asked when it comes to marriage. This leads to an understanding how mistaken we are. You must be familiar with the saying:

Have you not come across anyone girl who has got married to an older man, because the guy has lot of money.

Money is definitely a necessary tool for life. But in my opinion, it doesn’t have to be the first question to be raised or considered when it comes to marriage. I am sure you must be aware that successful marriage are based on mutual understanding. Even Love is not the first ingredient of marriage. It understanding of thoughts, values, behaviors, wishes and desires. Unfortunately many young girls skip this understanding part when they fall in love. In the beginning when both are in love, they don’t dare compromising on wishes and desires. Because the initial feeling of love is awesome. And most importantly when 2 people fall in love, they fulfill their desire for Love. Some young girls are mistaken by considering Love as an understanding.

1:          The first thing I would like all my readers to note is to differentiate between Love and understanding.

If you are not aware of someone’s value, wishes, desires and behaviors, you can still love that person but you don’t understand that person. Some of you may say, offcourse I understand him because I love him. I would like to remind you of a very famous saying:

Love doesn’t care about behaviors, wishes, or anything else in the purest sense but marriage does. The first ingredient of any marriage is mutual ‘understanding’ that leads to respect.

2:       Identify similarities and Clashes of Values

Everyday I come across real life cases, when I counsel people with suicide tendencies. Recently I came across a case study, where the Guy I were counseling mentioned to me that he doesn’t like his girl friend to talk with other guys. This reflects upon his values. What that person would value in his marriage and what he wont. I, as an specialist in Women Empowerment would never suggest anyone to change their values for love. Because it doesn’t last longer. And that’s what I recommended this guy. To remain with his value and be aware of it. This also leads to an understanding of his girlfriend’s value. She values socializing. She enjoys it. And I would never recommend her to change her values for someone who doesn’t value her values.

In my recent survey from girls across the planet, I came to an understanding that 36.5% of girls would marry a guy who doesn’t value her values. This means they will still marry a guy, who doesn’t like you to talk with other guys.  And approximately 3% of girls are in a confused state of mind. I doubt they might do this mistake if they didn’t this article. Or didn’t make sense of this article.

3:      Jumpout without regret

This Guy I were counseling didn’t agree with my recommendation and wanted to trick the girl for his attention. But here in my article I would like all my readers to learn to differentiate between love and understanding. And believe me once you identify that your values are in clash with opposite sex, its the right time for you to move out of that relationship before its too late and you be hurt.

I reciprocate the same for guys as well. And I say it Out Loud, not to marry a girl who doesn’t value your choices. Many of you, in your head are asking, than what should I do? My answer to them is to find another girl who respect your choices and values. Who is comfortable with it to make you even more comfortable with your choices. Most of us don’t dare leaving the person due to the fear that we might not find love again. Take my words, you will sure fall in love again. Infact you deserve to have someone who would be comfortable with your values, likes and dislikes. Don’t get caught in the early emotions.

Any young girl and their parents, I suggest before you raised question on how much the person earns, you raise question on his values. This will lead to a good, healthy relationship. Even in this modern centaury, I come across cases, when a baby girl was born in a family and the guy left that girl. Because she gave birth to a girl. These are the values which needs to be identified before you marry your daughter. Or before you choose to marry someone.

4:       Embrace your Values:

Compromising your values wont bring happiness at all. The first person to acknowledge your likes and dislike is YOU. Once you are clear on what you needs, what you like, what you can give up, when will you give up. Your vibrations will only attract what you need.

For all of you out there, I wish you happiness in your search for love and marriage life.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Would you marry a Guy who doesnt like you talking with other Guys

Thank you for taking time out to participate in a survey. As this will form a basis of my new article.

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Kick your Depression in 30 minutes

Being a Founder of Suicide prevention in Pakistan, everyday I deal with someone going through a period of depression. Some who contact me have not seen any counselor or psychologist in 10 years. They have so much within themselves which they are holding. Miserably, in return they are being hold and stuck in life.

I understand it is highly important from counseling and therapy point of view to identify reasons and know the story. Also I am not going to say anything about which therapy will bring you fastest results. As I believe, there are many ways to do one thing. And there is no one particular way to do things. I myself have done certification in Neuro Linguistic Programming and I am a Reiki Master. Infact I specialize in healing Migraine through Reiki.  Not a single client as of today who couldn’t feel better instantly. I am very Thankful to God for this blessing upon me.

However, as a practitioner I have learn a common behavior of people going through depression or suicide tendencies. Today I will only discuss three of these common behaviors and one solution that will SKY rocket your results of consultation.

The three common behavior includes:

1:      No Social Life, they are mostly cut-off from social gathering

2:      Low Energy, although they are talented, but the big fat elephant of ‘WILL’ inside them, is so  huge, it becomes so heavy over the period of time, that they cant carry it anymore.  So they let it sit down all the time instead.

3:      Do not want to do anything and mostly lying in bed or sleeping

Before I move on the solution, I would highly recommend preparing your Coachee or Client  for the change. I usually do this by helping them understand a very simple fact that we have all learnt is we need different results, we need to do something different or else we will keep getting same results. Believe me, I get so many objections which you could imagine. My Coachee will say clearly I am not ready to do anything. But helping them understand the simple fact I just mentioned above, has helped me a lot. and I firmly believe it will help you as well.

In my practice I have very successful to uplift the energy in just 30 minutes by involving them in some physical sports such as Cricket, Football, Badminton etc. But please do not involve them with Luddo, Chase, etc. These passive games will not help in 30 minutes.

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Physical games will help them relief all negative energy while instantly uplifting their will power and energy level. Try this yourself and do let me know how it goes.

If you are personally dealing with depression or suicide feeling, take my challenge. Do let me know how these 30 minutes helped you. And I promise if you let me know, I will feature you on Social Media all at my cost.

Chiao

NeoCon

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Today I am not gonna share one but two Speaking opportunities with my readers, fan’s, friends and followers. And I hope I will bring some smile on your face. Once you are done with browsing do write me in comments to let me know how you feel about sharing these great opportunities with you. are you interested in more? Am I helping you in anyways? What more you like me to share about? 🙂

Lets talk about NeoCon and who they are and what areas of Speaking they are looking for. NeoCon is a leader in trade show development, management and production. This is a great news as that means Speaker from wide range of topics can forward their proposals.

It time for me to disclose who can forward their proposals and who could not. The wide range which NeoCon is looking includes, Sales & Marketing, Environmental Design, Facilities Management, Health Care, Hotels, Professional Development, Retail and many many more. I suggest to please visit their website for more details on areas. Trust me there are lot more than this I mentioned.

Don’t forget to let me know of your progress. As a Leadership Coach I am always interested in your success. Your success will make the most happiest.

Lots of Luck and wishes with the link of NeoCon

http://neoconcfp.com/

With Love

Jennifer Ali

America’s Small Business Summit

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The America’s Small Business Summit will be held on April 29 – May 1, 2013. They will be accepting proposals till December 3, 2012. I highly suggest all my friend and you the readers to visit their website

http://www.uschambersummit.com/speakers

I wish all of you a great success in your endeavors.

With Love

Jennifer Ali

Passion Propels the Presentation

Today I make a promise with all my friends, followers, colleagues and above all to myself that I will always share things which I find Valuable for me and I believe could equally benefit you

Here is a link which I believe some of you would be interested in

 

https://www.eventbrite.com/org/989489277?s=9174720